familiarity breeds contempt
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English[edit]
Proverb[edit]
- The more acquainted one becomes with a person, the more one knows about his or her shortcomings and, hence, the easier it becomes to dislike that person.
- Synonyms: a prophet has no honor in his own country, a prophet is not without honor save in his own country, (colloquial) the more one learns about people, the more one likes one's pet
- 1673, Richard Baxter, chapter X, in A Christian Directory, part II:
- “[S]uffer [your children] not to carry themselves unreverently or contemptuously towards you [parents]; but to keep their distance. For too much familiarity breedeth contempt, and imboldeneth to disobedience.”
- 1822, William Hazlitt, chapter 1, in Table-Talk:
- “For a person to read his own works over with any great delight, he ought first to forget that he ever wrote them. Familiarity naturally breeds contempt.”
- 1886 October – 1887 January, H[enry] Rider Haggard, She: A History of Adventure, London: Longmans, Green, and Co., published 1887, →OCLC:
- [F]or Ayesha was certainly an exception to the rule. Familiarity with her might and did breed passion and wonder and horror, but it certainly did not breed contempt.
- 1894, H. Rider Haggard, chapter 25, in The People Of The Mist:
- This was the beginning of evil, for if no man is a hero to his valet de chambre, much less can he remain a god for long in the eyes of a curious woman. Here, as in other matters, familiarity breeds contempt.
Translations[edit]
if you know someone very well, you stop respecting them
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