The smile he wore told her he knew she had sexytime thoughts in there too.
2011, Jaclyn Friedman, What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety[1], Seal Press, →ISBN:
If you want your partner to stop doing a particular thing but you still want the general sexytime to continue, try suggesting a hot alternative.
2012, Saran Benincasa, Agorafabulous!: Dispatches From My Bedroom[2], HarperCollins, →ISBN:
I avoided alcohol but encouraged his consumption, as I'd heard that getting the other person intoxicated was a good way to ensure that sexytime would ensue.