free use

English

Noun

free use (uncountable)

1. (sexuality) A kink in which someone consents to being available to have sex with or to be "used" by their partner at any time.
   • 2021 March 13, Isabelle Kohn, “Anytime, Anywhere: The Growing Appeal of the Free-Use Fetish”, in MEL Magazine‎^[1], Marina del Rey, Calif.: Recurrent Ventures, archived from the original on 2023-08-07:

     In some cases, free use takes place within a BDSM dynamic, and will make use of kinkier things like bondage, sensory deprivation and even other people to enhance the fantasy. But in others, free use is perfectly vanilla.

   • 2023 August 18, Magdalene Taylor, “What’s the ‘Free Use’ Fetish, and Why’s Everyone Talking About It?”, in VICE‎^[2], archived from the original on 2023-08-25:

     In practice, free use is an arrangement between two consenting adults. One partner has the liberty to initiate sex without asking and without foreplay, whether the other partner is occupied, asleep, or what have you.

   • 2023 August 22, Jake Myers, “The “free use” fetish is sweeping the gay community. Is it ruthless, or a relief?”, in Queerty‎^[3], archived from the original on 2023-08-26:

     Whether you agree with it or not in your own relationship, “free use” is spreading like wildfire, with categories of gay adult videos devoted to the trend popping up all over the internet.

2. Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see free,‎ use.

Further reading

• “Free Use (Fetish)”, in Know Your Meme, launched 2007